Chloe B. Mckenzie, the founder of BlackFem, breaks down two influences that determine our ability to create wealth:
So, how do we ensure a money mindset that supports wealth building?
Start with awareness
You can’t change what you don’t know. Spend some time reflecting and journaling about your money mindset, your past financial decisions and habits, and where you are in your financial journey today.
Reflect on these areas…
Your current mindset
Decisions and habits around money
Gratitude and forgiveness
Changing a mindset you’ve held for decades is difficult. Be open and willing to see things differently.
1. Unlearn limiting beliefs
Money isn’t the most important thing in life, but having enough or more than enough of it does give you more options throughout your life.
As queer people, we’re often undervalued and underpaid. It’s easy to internalize the value society has placed on us, even when it’s unfair and inaccurate.
Your time and skills are valuable, and people and companies will try to exploit them. You deserve a stress-free financial life, and dropping the belief that you’re only as valuable as others tell you you are is the first step toward that.
2. Develop new habits
Money management can feel overwhelming or boring if you’re used to avoiding it. But shifting your mindset can change your relationship with managing money and help you incorporate it into your life.
Look at budgeting and money management as tools for autonomy. They let you spend intentionally by telling your money where to go — and avoid spending on things you don’t actually want.
This isn’t an easy change to make, so be patient with yourself during your journey and celebrate your small wins!
3. Reframe mistakes and practice gratitude
If you fall back into a money habit you’re trying to shed, it’s OK. Give yourself compassion and understanding, and reframe your mistakes as learning opportunities.
Ruminating doesn’t serve anyone, and you can’t learn from a place of shame. Building wealth is a slow process, so be patient and remember: you’re on your team!
4. Give money away
It may seem counterintuitive, but a great way to help shift your money mindset is to donate money.
Donating money is proven to bring psychological benefits like joy. It also reinforces intentional spending, helps shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance, and, depending on where you donate, it can be tax-deductible!