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5 Ways Budgeting Is Different When You're Queer

Did you know that more than 51% of LGBTQ+ people have less than $5,000 in their savings? According to a recent financial report, almost 20% of queer people lack a savings account altogether.

This is why we need to talk about budgeting for the LGBQT+ community. Especially if you’re planning to start a family.

We want you to walk away from this article feeling empowered to start budgeting and/or perfect your budget like never before. So here are the five reasons budgeting is important for the queer community.

5 Reasons Budgeting is Important for LGBTQ+ People

1. Saving money is tough…especially for queer folks

While more than half of LGBTQ+ people self-identify as savers, this report suggests we spend a lot more than we save.

In fact, this study finds that queer people overspend on expenses like going out, entertainment and personal care rather than saving money, especially young queers between the ages 25-34.

Some of those reasons being:

  • It’s easier to connect with the community through social events
  • There’s less education on how to create better spending habits for queer people
  • LGBTQ+ people admit to having a hard time saving money

If going out is important to you, that is OK. You can start budgeting by keeping your leisurely expenses to less than 25% of each paycheck.

2. Cost of living can be higher for LGBTQ+ people

This is another important reason to start budgeting as a queer person.

We know that in order to feel comfortable with where we live, the cost of living is higher. Some of the most queer-friendly cities in the US are also the most expensive. These cities include:

  • Los Angeles, CA
  • Portland, OR
  • Austin, TX
  • New York, NY
  • Seattle, WA
  • San Francisco, CA

Whereas places with some of the lowest costs of living—such as West Virginia, Oklahoma and Arkansas—are not only less queer-friendly but even have anti-LGBTQ laws put in place.

What this means is that budgeting is a must. You can use this free budgeting calculator to go through your monthly spending.

3. Starting a queer family is more expensive

There is no doubt that it is more expensive for queer people to have children vs. heterosexual couples. We require family creation methods that simply aren’t cheap with fees that add up very quickly.

And while starting a family is expensive for anyone (roughly $12,980 per child per year), let’s take a look at some of the average costs for the most common LGBTQ+ family creation methods:

  • Domestic Adoption: $20,000 - $45,000
  • International Adoption: $25,000 - $70,000
  • Surrogacy: $90,000 - $125,000
  • Egg Donation: $10,000 - $40,000

If you’re planning to start a family, you should start budgeting now. You can never be too financially prepared to bring a baby home.

4. Need to budget for gender-affirming care

According to the Philadelphia Center for Transgender Surgery, the average cost of gender confirmation surgeries range between $1,500 to $26,000. However, if your care requires multiple surgeries, these numbers can spike above six figures.

Here are several ways you can start budgeting for your care:

  • Understand the average healthcare costs for this care
  • Research your health insurance coverage
  • Create a financial plan to help prepare

If you’re planning to cover the costs of gender-affirming care, having a mapped out budget will make the process a lot smoother, knowing you’re financially prepared.

5. Queer people earn less money…

It’s true—queer people make less money than cis folks.

This pay gap is widest for transgender people and queer women of color, according to an NBC News report. On average, queer women make 12% less than straight women throughout the workplace.

These pay disparities impact our budgets tenfold, which is why it’s important to take action and start budgeting as a queer person.

Budget Like Your Life Depends on It - Daylight Grow

Budget like your life depends on it. Seriously. Here at Daylight Grow, we couldn’t be more empathetic to the financial strains that queer people face across the board.

If you need help mapping out a budget, whether you’re starting a family, getting gender-affirming care, or simply need a place to begin, you can always reach out to our team at info@joindaylight.com.

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